These quotes sum up my thoughts on community right now.
God does not reward you for being loved but for loving. So be more frustrated with your failures to love than to be loved.-John Piper
As a servant, your primary responsibility is to be a "friend of the bridegroom." When you see a person who is close to grasping the claims of Jesus Christ, you know that your influence has been used in the right direction.-Oswald Chambers
He must increase, I must decrease.-John 3:30